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Why I’ve let go of cool girl syndrome in my relationships
For the longest time, I was the quintessential cool girl in relationships. Chill, low maintenance, oh-so-cool with everything. I pretended that I was cool with anything my partners did and said,...
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How does selfishness destroy relationships (and keep you from true love)
Something that occurred to me recently is how much independence and individualism is present and valued in our society, to the point so many people are becoming rather selfish in their romantic...
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What is love? bell hooks’ all about love book and carthexis
What is love and what is your definition of love you know psychologist and philosophers and authors and all sorts of people over the years have actually been pondering the meaning of love but nobody...
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If I have a tendency towards limerence, can I ever find true love?
What is love to you? When you think of love, what do you think of? What feelings come up for you? When I think of “love”, I think of…teamwork, similar values, soul recognition, wanting to support each...
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A pattern of limerence and emotional unavailability
A client recently asked me this question: “I have a pattern of falling into limerence, how can I avoid being limerent for unavailable men? I’m tired of getting my heartbroken over and over again by...
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My retroactive jealousy story & how I healed
If you’ve been single most of your life and haven’t dated around much and went from there to being in a serious relationship? Woah, I think that’s tough – IF you’ve not got healthy beliefs about love...
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5 signs you may be prone to retroactive jealousy
Do you find yourself dwelling on your partner’s past relationships, obsessing over their former flames, and feeling an overwhelming sense of jealousy that just won’t quit? If so, you might be...
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Limerence: The Ultimate Guide & Reference
This post is here to compile all my knowledge on limerence that I’ve posted on my blog since. I’ve written about some of the key things, but alot of my other tailored advice and strategies for healing...
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5 inner child wounds that retroactive jealousy stems from
Retroactive jealousy actually stems from a couple of deep-seated, unhealed traumatic issues and wounds from childhood, or just generally a very difficult childhood without much nurturing or with a...
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How to Cure Limerence – Developing a Sense of Self and Awareness
When you are limerent or experiencing limerence, you probably know how it all feels and what is going on. There are certain patterns that you’d keep seeing repeat itself over and over: An obsession...
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